Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Damn you hormones.....

Lately, I hate music.  I hate the radio.  I hate the cds I have.  This is one week, I almost wish i was deaf.  My emotions are getting the better of me, and its very irritating.  I am one of those people that associates moments in my life with songs.  I hate that.  At the moment, most songs I hear are reminding me of the last few months of my life.  How did I end up this emotionally twisted over someone I never meant to feel anything for???  I didn't mean to fall for him.  I tried really hard not to.  I just wanted a distraction from the suffocating, soul crushing heartbreak I went thru just a few months earlier.  And he claimed to just want to be a distraction of sorts.  Then he started talking of feelings, and love, and the future.  And the sex was freaking incredible.  I took the bait.  He was so sweet and funny.  He was adorable.  He sang to me and made me listen to country music(gag).  He told me I was beautiful and to not be so self-conscious of my body.  He made me feel I WAS beautiful and desirable, and wanted and appreciated. 

And now he's disappeared.  Well, not really disappeared.  He's been on facebook.  But he's back with her I guess.  He dropped me off the 25th after we spent the whole day together and had a really good time.  At least I thought so.  That was the last time I heard from him or saw his face.  He must be done with me.  He's never disappeared this long before.  A few days, a week, maybe 2, but not this long.  And not ignoring every thing I try to reach out to him.  I suppose he realised I am too much for him.  Emotionally.  I suppose maybe, he just got bored.  I am just tired of supposing, and guessing, and wondering.  I quit.  I deleted him from facebook.  It was just too difficult to keep from stalking his page.  I don't like feeling like a stalker.  I'm too old for that shit. 

I need a distraction.  I need to close that chapter in my horrid book of love. 

I hate love. 

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